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129) Ayla 
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Thursday, 29 May 1997 01:00 Write a comment Send E-mail

You have a beautiful homepage.I'm sorry you had to go through what you did.Take care,Ayla
128) Gipsy 
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You've filled my eyes with tears...You've filled my heart with hope...You've filled your days with prospersous endeavours...Love yourself for you are a beautiful individual...I love all that you are--take care of your miracle and you'llsee the miracle is you....driftGipsy
127) Dave Dutchuk 
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Allan, great web page there buddy! your one in a million dude. long time freind and partner. great thing you did here for terra, and terra it takes a lot of courage to do what you did here and congrats on the faith that everything turns out great and I bet your doing great things to. best wishes to you both and hope your future is a great one. Dave
126) Anonymous 
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Terra, you did nothing wrong. God didn't chose you to punish. You did nothing wrong.But you sang & prayed to him, yet, you still felt the pain. You are not the one to blame, Terra. You did nothing wrong. There was so much love you have given away. Such great love should come back your way.Dear Terra, Thank you for sharing all that you have shared in 'Bearing through it...'I have kept silent about my pain since my early teenage years but the feeling just wouldn't go away.Being a guy, I feel ashame to cry even to myself. But I cry now knowing that there are other people who are hurt too. I'm crying for them. I'm crying because there is so much pain everywhere. I want to love but it's so hard when it's so artifical. All I feel is just hate. I want to be happy. That's all I really wanted.Remind myself it's not my fault, I live like this day by day. But I know someday there will be no more pain. That's when I pass away.
125) P'u 
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Don't ever give up! Healing IS possible! I still have a few scars, but on the whole, i'm OK. Happy and functional. Trust your therapist.
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124) Carol 
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Thank You for sharing yourself so openly.Take Care,Carol
123) chris 
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DEAR TERRA I am so glad I stumbled onto your site.I have friends that are living in so much pain and suffuring and it is so hard to help having not been through this pain and have no understanding of such untill now I didnt know where to start thank you so much for sharing. Terra NO it is not Your Fault and you have to be able to completely forgive to recive sanctuary in gods arms so just keep praying and one day you will be able to completely forgive i have faith in your kind and genourous heart. Thank you terra
122) Ronie 
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I was recently diagnosed with conversion disorder. Even though it has been mentioned before by other doctors in the past three years of searching for an answer to my severe medical problems, I still have dificulty accepting it. Trying to keep an open mind and a genuine desire to get well and resume a 'normal' life I decided to explore the Web and found this site. So many of the words, sentences, and phrases fit exactly. So much so, that my heart is racing. I guess, part of what makes it so hard to believe, is that I have no memory of any sexual abuse...just several 'red flags'. I have been in a committed relationship with a wonderful person now for almost 4 years and I am determined to 'get well' for their sake as well as mine. Thank you for taking the time to create this site, as it did 'reach out' to me. I am in the process of finding a therapist. Thank you...Ronie
121) Mahmood Alam 
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m so worried becouse m fall in my love no body is with me whocan chat with me or make freiend ship with me ANY BODY CAN HELP MEPLS
120) Clara 
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Hi Terra, I don't know what to write. I'm happy that I'm not alone that's all. I've read what you've wrote, and actually it was my husband print it for me. And he encouraged me to surfed on in. And I never regret to know you. I've been through what you've been through and I know how hard it was. If I never know that there is no God who loved me I don't think that I'm still alive now. What you have been through, that's what I've been through. I'll see you next time. Now I have wonderful son and husband who is very supportive. May God bless us.
119) Anonymous 
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I am so glad that you created this website. I just recently discovered that I had been a victim of emotional incest. I have already been doing healing work on myself for depression and other things, so once I find healing from this, I know that I will be such a dynamic and healthy person! Thank you so much for sharing your pain and your journey to healing....God Bless you!
118) Anna 
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Terra, I have found your website so helpful and can relate much to many of the stories and poems...I am so grateful that there is a place that I can go to and remember I am not alone...and not at fault. Thanks so much....you are a true survivor and I hope I can be as strong.
117) Kristel Cullen 
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Great website! Thanks it helped me! I am 18 and i was raped 9 months ago by my 36 year old uncle!
116) kari gulvin 
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I like the way you share. This is the first time, right now, that I will call myself a survivor! I was just 'molested' till tonight. I hope I can do something to help....kari
115) Anonymous 
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Dear Terra, It is very nice to see that you are strong to share the information. I am a male who have been through a rape situation. I was raped by 5 highschoolers when I was in middle school. It was the most terrifying day of my life, it still is. But I do consider myself a survivor. I do am happy to see that you (and many others) who are willing to talk about this. I know you have done a lot, but if you come by anyone who has concerns about this situation please feel free to give them my email. I will be more than happy to help them. I am happy to see you(and other people on the postings) open up their experience. If anyone wants to talk to me about their experience or need any help (I have done a lot of research on male and female), please feel free to ask.thank you,biju
114) Annalisa Ciccotto 
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Hi Terra, I'm back I just love this website...it gives me the motivation to keep moving forward and letting go of all I have held on to....Thanks Again
113) tina rosendale 
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hi there i have been sexually abuseed when i was young and now i call my self a survvior but i still have dreams and get sad but know i know that i have beaten the bastards :)
112) Tammy 
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Hello Terra, I'm so glad I came across your web page. Being a child of Incest and knowing that there are so many simalarites that I'm not alone in this battle. I've been battling this for 23 years. From relationships to my children........I know there's hope out there. I know it's not my fault but I don't think I'll ever get over this pain. There's days I feel like I'm over this I won't talk about it. And there's day's I think what could I have done different. But reading your words is a real uplifting. Thanks Tammy
111) Denise Marhoefer 
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Hello;I am contacting those of who are involved in working with children and child abuse to see if they could be of assistance. The project I am working on is a collaboration of writings from children who have been abused.This is to become a book.If you know of anyone who would be interested in participating in this,let me know.  Children who are interested in having their writing published can contact me directly.  Only their first names will be published.Dmarhoefer2@aol.comThe Legal Defense Foundation for childrenDenise MarhoeferPO Box 65Losantville, IN                  47354I thank you in advance,Sincerely,Denise Marhoefer~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Let me give you more information on this project.This was borne out of an actual event.A few weeks ago, an attorney, who was trying to justify the courts decision to return children to their molester/father, explained that2 and 3 year olds are not actually traumatized by child sexual abuse, because they are not even aware that anything is happening to them.That it is only the adults in the situation who make it traumatizing.(there is not only the disease factor, but infertility caused by the actual injury itself, just to name a few.....).Much of my work is with child sexual abuse.  It is this ignorance that must make this age group so popular, as I have several cases from all over the country.  'Incest', as it is so pleasantly called causes the exact same emotional damage as rape.  There is no difference, between a familiar molester and a total stranger who molests. The emotional impact is equally devastating.I am of the belief that I do not care who I am born to,(or who I am married to,(for that matter), this does not give anyone the right to do anything that they want to me.  I am not against fathers.  Matter of fact,I am actually very much for them.  I am however very much against incest, and child sexual abuse.(as well as abuse in general).After the attorneys comment, I could only begin to think of the children that I know who are struggling and will have trouble learning how to lovefor the rest of their lives.  There is an eight year old who is writing for this book, at the age of three was molested by not only her father, but her grandfather, while the grandmother watched.  She has plenty to say on the subject.  It is for her, and the countless others, that I am arranging this production, as it is the only way I know to restore some sort of decency and dignity to their lives.  Even if this book does not sell one copy, it is for them.  I want these children to know that someone cares about what has happened to them, and believes them.......The writings are incredible that are coming in.The intensity is unbelievable, and very powerful, as I knew it would be.They are very excited, and as one individual commented:. << Thanks for the voice.  I wasbeginning to think no one would ever hear me {real tears}  Thanks>>The cover will be of a beautiful one year old,who was raped and murdered, and while she was too young for words,I want her eyes to be able to say all that she could not.....This is the only way I know how to honor her, as her passing must never gounnoticed.....I believe this type of violence needs to be addressed.   (c)2001Denise MarhoeferThe Legal Defense Foundation for childrenPO Box 65Losantville, IN                   47354USAvoice mail:1-765-853-5903Dmarhoefer2@aol.com'Because of natural imitation, our children are the purest form of what we truly are.......DM1993''To escape criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.'--Elbert Hubbard  1856-1915~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~To YouYou may not see the actual harvest-You may not feel the importanceof the seed you've sownor know that the tilling of the soilis the foundation for all growth...You are the beginning.Through you,seeds are scattered across many fields,over mountains, to sail upongold lit seas...You do not know the abundanceof the harvest of the work of your handsand the effect of your heart for they are immeasurable........                                                                       copyright1999dmarhoefer
110) Skyline 
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You touched the strings of my heart. I too suffer from depression(and fighting it with all my strength) and anxiety.I was sexually assualted by my best friend's brother. Would love to get in contact with you.Beautiful site, beautiful person!
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